Perception Checking Procedure
The benefits of perception checking statements include:
a) helping us decode messages more accurately: Our goal is mutual understandingPerception Checking has 3 parts:
b) reducing defensiveness & the potential for conflict: helps us avoid assuming too much.
- Description - provide a description of the behavior you noticed.
- Interpretation - provide two possible interpretations of the behavior.
- Clarification - request clarification from the person about the behavior & your interpretations.
Perception Checking Example 1
a) Description of behavior noticed
When you walked out of the room without saying “goodbye...”
b) Two possible interpretations of behavior
“I didn’t know if you were mad at me”
“or if you were in a hurry and forgot.”
c) Request for clarification
“What was up?”
Perception Checking Example 2
a) Description of behavior noticed
“You haven’t called in the few days"
b) Two possible interpretations of behavior
I am not sure whether you’re upset with me
or you’ve been busy
c) Request for clarification
What’s going on?”
In this video you'll see students practicing the skill of perception checking. It provides some examples of perception checking in action.
Video by YouTube user JTIsaac
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