Emotional Awareness and Conflict Resolution
Hot and Cool Feelings

Feelings differ by degree. Hot feelings are more intense and can lead to dysfunctionality. Being able to recognize the hot feelings in ourselves and others is important. Once the hot feelings are recognized, one can move away from them and toward the cool feelings.
Source: S. Stein and H. Book, The EQ Edge: Emotional Intelligence and Your Success (Toronto: Stoddart Publishing, 2000
Hot Feelings | Cool Feelings |
Rage, fury and anger |
Annoyance, irritation |
Despondency, despair, depression, Pessism | Sadness |
Severe guilt, intense remorse |
Regret |
Self-worthlessness, self-hate | Self-disappointment |
Anxiety, fear, panic |
Concern |

Which hot feelings has the following physical signs: Hands-on-hips, pounding heart, sweating and rapid breathing.
Anger
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Anxiety
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Fear
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Which of the hot feelings is manifested by the following physical signs: restlessness, pounding heart, rapid breathing.
Depression
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Anxiety
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Rage
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