Document which discusses discouraging verbal messages, encouragement and how to teach problem solving skills adapted from Robert J. Mackenzie’s book, “Setting limits in the classroom: How to move beyond the classroom dance of discipline.”
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Suggestions for handling surface behavior
Pdf document that outlines the ways in which a teacher can direct or redirect student behavior, with suggestions for responses when confronted by a student, with material from Nicholas A. Seta and Allen N. Mendler.
Soft vs firm limits
Word document which discusses soft limits and firm limits, with examples and consequences.
Positions and interests
Pdf document that describes an exercise in negotiation and problem solving to be used with children in grades 5-8, with a worksheet at end of document.
How to talk so kids will listen & listen so kids will talk
Document summarizing Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish’s work of the same title, with instructions to increase listening skills, help children deal with feelings, provide praise and use alternatives to punishment, with role playing exercises.
Desperation cycle
One page document with graphic showing the cycle of desperation experienced by a child who cannot communicate his feelings.